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Lars Takle's avatar

Thanks for the share and what a great way to reframe your story! No matter how bad a system is, maybe except for some extreme cases, one never gains anything by feeding a victim mentality loop. And at the same time, I think it is valuable to criticize a system without considering oneself a victim of it. I guess the parenting style of my parents is a good example. I love my parents, and I have never felt like a “victim” of their way of parenting. But still, there are many things I disagree with and do differently as a father

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CansaFis Foote's avatar

...really nice reframing...good reminder that we are the authors of our stories and what they say and mean is of our determination...

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